Gratitude is action as well as words

Bird Droppings November 11, 2011
Gratitude is action as well as words

Most mornings I am driving to school about four thirty or so in the morning but today with Veterans Day as a holiday I got to relax till maybe five or so. Today my wife had scheduled a medical procedure and we were at the doctor around seven this morning just as the sun was coming up. I by chance got a photo of a brilliant red maple tree shining in the rising sun. Usually at that time of day at home while I can see the sunrise it is you can watch and listen to the awakening of everything. While I was standing facing east to take in the full effect of the sunrise it was mainly cars and business sounds humming and popping around me. After several minutes a lone bird started chirping and soon another and within minutes I was visually and auditorally committed and nature in the midst of chaos caught my attention again. On this day of thanks to our veterans I am not only thankful but offer it is with sincere gratitude that I sit here writing today. To friends, family and those I do know thank you from my heart.

“If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.” Meister Eckhart

It is only a few weeks ahead that as I will be waking up the morning after, while most folks will be still asleep, it seems that turkey has that effect on people here around the holidays. With the Thanksgiving holiday near I was thinking about gratitude. When I saw Eckhart’s quote about a month ago my first thought was to use it on Thanksgiving Day. But I really think it goes beyond a single day of giving thanks.

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” Melody Beattie

“Feeling grateful or appreciative of someone or something in your life actually attracts more of the things that you appreciate and value into your life.” Northrup Christine

Being grateful opens doors and let’s people in. We live in such a protectionist society and reality. We are always trying to protect our own area of influence and self. However gratefulness can lift you up and take you beyond where you are now to another level.

“Gratitude is the heart’s memory.” French Proverb

“It is another’s fault if he is ungrateful, but it is mine if I do not give. To find one thankful man, I will oblige a great many that are not so.” Seneca

Gratitude requires giving and in giving we are also offering of ourselves and building up within ourselves.

“The human contribution is the essential ingredient. It is only in the giving of oneself to others that we truly live.” Ethel Percy Andrus

“It is possible to give without loving, but it is impossible to love without giving.” Richard Braustein

Life is about giving, sometimes what you offer to others is simply how and where you are placed in life and many times that provides the vehicle for your journey through life and direction for others.

“In helping others, we shall help ourselves, for whatever good we give out completes the circle and comes back to us.” Flora Edwards

“You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.” Kahlil Gibran

So often we think of giving as money or food, but in reality giving of self that is the hardest and the most rewarding. Caring about people and sharing is much harder than simply providing a dollar or a can, the gratitude comes back within and through our hearts.

“He who obtains has little. He who scatters has much.” Lao Tzu

“A handful of pine-seed will cover mountains with the green majesty of forests. I too will set my face to the wind and throw my handful of seed on high.” Fiona Macleod

When forester’s timber areas, often they will leave several healthy older trees to seed the remaining land. I have been in areas where clear cutting save for a few tree, has occurred and several years later a new forest has begun. But it is so important to plant seeds and to scatter them as to be a friend and to let friendships grow.

“It’s not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.” Mother Teresa

“The more credit you give away, the more will come back to you. The more you help others, the more they will want to help you.” Brian Tracy

“There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.” Edith Wharton

I remember a candlelight service so many years ago, one person carefully started with a lit candle and handed their light to another’s candle and each in turn went through the room lighting another’s and soon the room was filled with light. We are much like a candle light service if we share our light and love, and pass it on to the person next to you. It is to say thank you when you receive from another and offer always to another. So often life hands us unexpected surprises, gratitude extends and magnifies those times. Please as we get into this coming holiday season keep all in harm’s way on your mind and in your hearts.
namaste
bird

It is not about asking for but giving thanks

Bird Droppings August 17, 2011
It is not asking for but giving thanks

As I do so often searching the book shelves at my local Barnes and Nobles or Borders, soon to be no more. I found a few books over the past weekend. Two of the books are by J. T. And William Garrett and focus on Cherokee medicine and spirituality and the other is a book I have found most interesting and will be borrowing from in the classroom and in my writing over the next days. The book’s title is, Activating the Desire to learn by Bob Sutto who uses Dr. William Glasser’s Choice Theory, to open up students to learning. Choice Theory is a totally different approach in our world of antecedent, behavior and consequence as depicted in behaviorist understanding. Perhaps a good lead in to my thinking on this book and idea is one of saying thank you.

“If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.” Meister Eckhart

Thanksgiving is a way of life for traditionalists in Indian thought. Prayer to an Indian is about giving thanks for what is received or to be taken for use. Prayer is never asking for something as we materialistic folks seemed to do on a minute by minute basis. It was only a few weeks back that as I was waking up considerably later, still while most folks were still asleep, and I was thinking about gratitude. So often we are not thankful for all that befalls us. When I saw Eckhart’s quote about a month ago my first thought was to use it on Thanksgiving Day. But I really think it goes beyond a single day of giving thanks.

“Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and more. It turns denial into acceptance, chaos to order, confusion to clarity. It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home, a stranger into a friend. Gratitude makes sense of our past, brings peace for today, and creates a vision for tomorrow.” Melody Beattie

“Feeling grateful or appreciative of someone or something in your life actually attracts more of the things that you appreciate and value into your life.” Northrup Christine

Being grateful opens doors and let’s people in. We live in such a protectionist society and reality. We are always trying to protect our own area of influence and self. Many times this is human natures preponderance to greed coming into effect. However gratefulness can lift you up and take you beyond where you are now to another level.

“Gratitude is the heart’s memory.” French Proverb

“It is another’s fault if he is ungrateful, but it is mine if I do not give. To find one thankful man, I will oblige a great many that are not so.” Seneca

Gratitude requires giving and in giving we are also offering of ourselves as well as building up within ourselves.

“The human contribution is the essential ingredient. It is only in the giving of oneself to others that we truly live.” Ethel Percy Andrus

“It is possible to give without loving, but it is impossible to love without giving.” Richard Braustein

Life is about giving, sometimes what you offer to others is simply, the how, and why and where you are placed in life and many times that provides the vehicle for your journey through life and direction or a map for others.

“In helping others, we shall help ourselves, for whatever good we give out completes the circle and comes back to us.” Flora Edwards

“You give but little when you give of your possessions. It is when you give of yourself that you truly give.” Kahlil Gibran

So often we think of giving as money or food, but in reality giving of yourself is the hardest and the still the most rewarding. Caring about people and sharing is much harder than simply providing a dollar or a can, the gratitude comes back within and through our hearts.

“He who obtains has little. He who scatters has much.” Lao Tzu

“A handful of pine-seed will cover mountains with the green majesty of forests. I too will set my face to the wind and throw my handful of seed on high.” Fiona Macleod

When forester’s timbers a given area, often they will leave several healthy older trees to seed the remaining land. I have been in areas where clear cutting save for a few tree, has occurred and several years later a new forest has begun. But it is so important to plant seeds and to scatter them as to be a friend and to let friendships grow.

“It’s not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.” Mother Teresa

“The more credit you give away, the more will come back to you. The more you help others, the more they will want to help you.” Brian Tracy

“There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it.” Edith Wharton

I remember a candlelight service so many years ago, one person carefully started with a lit candle and handed their light to another’s candle and each in turn went through the room lighting another’s and soon the room was filled with light. We are much like a candle light service if we share our light and love, and pass it on to the person next to you. It is to say thank you when you receive from another and offer always to another. So often life hands us unexpected surprises, gratitude extends and magnifies those times. Please as we get into this coming week ahead keep all in harm’s way on your mind and in your hearts.
namaste
bird

Looking for truth in an untruthful world

Bird Droppings May 6, 2011
Looking for truth in an untruthful world

I am later than normal getting to my writing as I was lazy earlier and spent a bit longer pondering the stars. It is the last day for another week of spring but here in Georgia the mornings have been a bit nippy the crickets and frogs have been silent. My dog decided to celebrate early getting me up almost before I was good and asleep. My youngest son and his wife headed south to Florida to visit my daughter in laws family and get in some beach time since college is finished till summer for them. It was a very strange evening not seeing my grand daughter in her room when I left for school or taking pictures last evening. I was discussing grand parenthood the other day with a fellow new grand parent and how it is so much fun watching the babies grow and learn. When my own were this age I was more concerned with feeding and clothing than observing and playing. Although we played a lot as they grew up.
Fortunately it was at about two this morning clear, the stars were out for the first time in a few days, we have had a lot of rain for which I will not complain about, as it has been so dry for so many summers. This will be actually one of the first in several years’ getting on towards Memorial Day that boaters in our Georgia lakes for their weekend will have a slightly more than full lake. It was not to far back we were bone dry and getting back from fifteen feet down took some time.
I was reading through my old yearbooks and entries by students who had signed it many not really my students but kids who stop by on a regular basis asking questions, holding Stevie the ball python, needing advice, or just because I happen to have a sofas in my room to sit on. Each one had similar connotations and touched my heart. As I am sitting writing another staff member just emailed where is your Bird Dropping’s on my Friday morning. Funny how something so simple in a routine can alter a day and hopefully my few moments of delay will be worth it.
Children see the world differently than adults and sadly most teachers never realize that. Piaget actually made reference numerous times in his writings and lectures to this point. In trying to understand children and even adults in all of the years I have observed and watched the world, I have found trust has been a focal point for building relationships with children and adults. We live in a world that forces us to distrust and this compounds the issue. Sadly we live in an untruthful world which is easy to see as we watch the financial debacles unfold and how many unscrupulous business people made fortunes while others struggled. In our own county insurance companies took in premiums and never generated policies as an example of a local business run amock. Millions of dollars were made for the agents and now as people are ready to retire or get injured and they have nothing. Several have gone to jail over that. I still find it interesting that Bernie Madoff was just on house arrest for so long for over fifty billion dollars in swindles and even now has had oppurtinities for vacations outside jail a time or two.

“A king asked a sage to explain the Truth. In response the sage asked the king how he would convey the taste of a mango to someone who had never eaten anything sweet. No matter how hard the king tried, he could not adequately describe the flavor of the fruit, and, in frustration, he demanded of the sage ‘Tell me then, how would you describe it?’ The sage picked up a mango and handed it to the king saying ‘This is very sweet. Try eating it!’” Hindu Teaching Story

Sometimes in the simplest way we can get a point across but nothing can describe more adequately than example.

“It is a pleasure to stand upon the shore, and to see ships toss upon the sea: a pleasure to stand in the window of a castle, and to see a battle and the adventures thereof below: but no pleasure is comparable to standing upon the vantage ground of truth… and to see the errors, and wanderings, and mists, and tempests, in the vale below.” Sir Francis Bacon

“It is unfortunate, considering that enthusiasm moves the world, that so few enthusiasts can be trusted to speak the truth.” Arthur James Balfour

As I read what these great thinkers have to say about truth it is sad that they see truth as an uncommon commodity something that is few and far between. We watch news and read newspapers each day and choose to believe or not believe what we see. One of my favorite heroes Bat boy, is having plastic surgery to look normal was the title of a grocery store tabloid back a fed days. One of my favorites was when Bill Clinton was in office and he was having an affair with an alien. Most of us see these doctored photos and total fabrications and pass them off as such but some people do take to heart. There are many who believe Apollo missions were total fabrication even with evidence debunking theories as to why the missions were faked and the thousands of people who would have to have been involved to cover it up and numerous other events in history that many of us consider to be real.

“Between truth and the search for it, I choose the second.” Bernard Berenson

“When you want to fool the world, tell the truth.” Otto Von Bismarck

Why is it, that truth is so elusive? I find it so hard to understand that we go at life literally intent on fabrication, deceit and deception. Bismarck’s comment though near a hundred years old is still very much true.

“Truth can never be told so as to be understood, and not be believed.” William Blake

“Truth lies within ourselves: it takes no rise from outward things, whatever you may believe. There is an inmost center in us all, where truth abides in fullness and to Know rather consists in opening out a way whence the imprisoned splendor may escape than in effecting entry for light supposed to be without.” Robert Browning

“A few observations and much reasoning lead to error; many observations and a little reasoning to truth.” Alexis Carrel

I look back and see how so many times in avoiding truth the tales grew with each moment and soon a story takes the place of a simple event and soon a novel unravels and the line between fiction and nonfiction becomes literally a canyon.

“The pursuit of truth will set you free; even if you never catch up with it.” Clarence Darrow

“Time is precious, but truth is more precious than time.” Benjamin Disraeli

“Only the hand that erases can write the true thing.” Meister Eckhart

Isn’t it sad that truth is so difficult and yet so easy. Telling the truth eliminates numerous additional words and time that could be spent perhaps going in the right direction rather than pursuing issues that really may not even pertain, so simple and yet elusive.

“The greater the truth the greater the libel.” Lord Ellenborough

“Truth is beautiful, without doubt; but so are lies.” Ralph Waldo Emerson

We so easily get caught up in deceit because this is what we want to hear truth may be painful or difficult to take and so the fabrication becomes the reality. A movie from a few years back portrays the world of a schizophrenic, A beautiful Mind. Dr, John Nash is played by Russell Crowe very convincingly. Dr. Nash eventually realizes the duplicity of his reality and learns to deal with it. Many of us never accept the unreal we create each day as we fabricate and manipulate that around us. We are brought up expecting untruth and we have professionals and politicians who work at telling half truths and fabricating to do their jobs and sadly they run the country. Wouldn’t it be an interesting world if politicians could take a medicine and become truthful sort of like Jim Careys character in Lier, and then we wouldn’t have a use for politicians and anyone could run for office?
Would it not be great if we could know the president was telling the truth or which ever politician is on TV? As I look at this concept it is truly sad.

“Respect for the truth comes close to being the basis for all morality.” Frank Herbert

“Peace if possible, but truth at any rate.” Martin Luther

“You’ll never get mixed up if you simply tell the truth. Then you don’t have to remember what you have said, and you never forget what you have said.” Sam Rayburn

We live in a society where morality is bantered about as a catch word. We live in a world where peace is elusive often because truth is no where to be found. We live in a world where politicians are counting how many times the other side has changed their minds and or rhetoric on issues. We live in a world where many are in harms way and many are due to untruths which we then justify by additional information and rationales mostly untrue. Do we even remember what and why? So as we sit reading and writing this morning please keep all in harms way on your mind and in your hearts.
namaste
bird