It is said dreams do not stand alone.

Bird Droppings October 28, 2026
It is said dreams do not stand alone.

“You are never given a dream without also being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however.” Richard Bach

Today, after a morning of moping, I can mope about doing computer work, reading, and house chores. I was focusing all morning on being alone and started a drop, basically focused on that. Then I recalled a book.  It has been so many years since I first read and experienced the whimsical book Jonathan Livingston Seagull. Bach’s tale follows a seagull who dreams of more than simply eating fish entrails at the pier. I was going through my computer files, and the only eBook I have had for more than five years is this one. Occasionally, when I’m in a quiet place and not too tired, so my eyes work, I pull up JLSG and read a few lines, thinking back to when I first read the hard copy.

A few years back, I walked out of my physical therapy session when a voice called me over. It was my son’s former middle school band director, now retired. He had done the same thing; I had ruptured his Achilles tendon. We old farts are fragile. As we reminisced, he mentioned he had dreamed about one of our many Disney trips with the band the night before. Usually, when middle schoolers were invited to march in parades at Disney, the band director would bring along a couple of high school students to support the middle school kiddos. My oldest had helped with the drumline a couple of times, and in his senior year, he had a goatee. My band director friend mentioned he woke up from a dream in which he was asked about the middle school drummer with a beard, as my son led the drumline. Synchronicity; perhaps we are all connected—even me writing about this today, my son’s birthday.

Each day, I hear and listen to the dreams of others, friends on Facebook, folks during the day, and former students, and I ask where and when. Some say whatever, and that is hard for me to understand. Having experienced so much in my life, good and bad, hearing a young person with no concept of tomorrow, because today was dashed, often takes me back. I recall several years back, on the first day in a class, when a student answered a simple goal sheet. Question one: Where will you be in a year? Probably still in school. Question two: Where will you be in five years? Probably in jail. Third Question: Where will you be in ten years? Dead was his answer. That is not the case, as I still have contact with him almost fifteen years later, and he is a motorcycle racer and mechanic in Texas, although he got the jail part right. I have been keeping in touch with him more indirectly recently, since he spent the better part of four years in jail and is now out, so he’s reached his five-year goal. He saw no future, and when I talked with him about his answers, he said he didn’t want a future because of the present he was experiencing.

“Here is a test to find whether your mission on earth is finished: If you are alive, it isn’t.” Richard Bach

“I have heard it said that the first ingredient of success — the earliest spark in the dreaming youth — is this: dream a great dream.” John A. Appleman

So often, when I meet people and/or students who have little thought of a future, a significant past holds them back; I recently wrote a paper on an idea I had about funneling. Our past is a major antecedent that drives our behaviors. The fellow above in my questions and answers was in this situation. Years ago, as I did the research for a graduate school paper, I found that in looking at twenty-eight Emotionally Disturbed children in my study, only two were still with biological parents and had not had trouble with law enforcement and had not been adjudicated. Only four were not on probation at that time.

“A man is not old until regrets take the place of dreams.” John Barrymore

“If there were dreams to sell, what would you buy?” Thomas Lovell Beddoes

I had not thought of this, but what a question to ask young people if dreams were for sale? What would you buy? Often, those who do not want to think ahead only see more of the same, for my young man above death was actually something he was looking forward to.

“The moment of enlightenment is when a person’s dreams of possibilities become images of probabilities.” Vic Braden

“You’ve got to create a dream. You’ve got to uphold the dream. If you can’t, go back to the factory or go back to the desk.” Eric Burdon

For some of you, the name Eric Burdon is insignificant, but for a few of us, back in the sixties, three British bands crossed the Atlantic and stormed the United States: The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, and The Animals. Eric Burdon was the lead singer for The Animals. He is still around 80 years old now, living in California and often performing solo or occasionally with his new band, The Eric Burdon Band; he has gone back to his roots, blues. But as I read Eric’s quote and look at Bach’s quote from a fictional character, the idea of dreaming and possibilities ties into you having to do something. You have to work to attain the dream. Here is a possibility: the dream and the opportunities in life in general. Just Do it, as it is scribbled on your shoes.

“When you reach for the stars, you may not quite get one, but you won’t come up with a handful of mud either.” Leo Burnett

“There couldn’t be a society of people who didn’t dream. They’d be dead in two weeks.” William Burroughs

William Burroughs’ name in literary circles often falls alongside Allen Ginsberg as part of The Beat generation, which was spawned in New York’s coffee houses and universities. But he is also often associated with Timmy Leary and Andy Warhol. In the early nineties, before killing himself, Kurt Cobain recorded an album with the then nearly 80-year-old Burroughs reading his own words over Cobain’s guitar chords. A drug addict for most of his life, Burroughs tried to write himself out of where he was. Many of his most significant efforts are reflections of his addictions and reflections on the addictions and limitations others impose on themselves.

“Follow your bliss.” Joseph Campbell

“If your dream is a big dream, and if you want your life to work on the high level that you say you do, there’s no way around doing the work it takes to get you there.” Joyce Chapman

Getting teenagers to accept the idea of going from point A to point B takes more than saying it; it can be a challenging sale. Several weeks ago, I sat down with two former students who dreamed of going to college. One of the fellows said he was going to college and getting a scholarship to play football. I thought and said, “You had never played in high school. How will you get a scholarship? He thought for a minute and said he would go out for the team. He thought he could play football because of his size and build. Ok, but you would still have to go to class, study, and read. His dreams were dashed by him. College was simply a football scholarship, and playing football was the Forest Gump approach. I also tried to explain that playing football meant practicing four or five hours a day, no TV, no video games, and no four or five honey buns and a Coke for snacks. He quickly decided to change his goal; it was too much work and not much fun. He wanted the glory of being a football player but not the work.

“When your heart is in your dream, no request is too extreme.” Jiminy Cricket

I have always thought it interesting that a cartoon insect could be one of the world’s great philosophers. When you believe you can, you can; I have always been told.

“We’ve removed the ceiling above our dreams. There are no more impossible dreams.” Jesse Jackson

“There are those who look at things the way they are and ask why? I dream of things that never were and ask why not.” Robert F. Kennedy

I often find myself drawn back to an idea or quote; Kennedy’s quote is one of those, as is dreaming. Each time I find something new, a new piece to the puzzle, a new thought as I am rambling through my day, pondering those moments of new ideas and direction. Today, reading about William Burroughs and Kurt Cobain, who both achieved immortality through fame and genius, one lived to barely 30, and the other to almost 90. Only slight differences kept their lives from being identical. I often speak of following a path; sometimes we have choices to make, and how far can we veer off it? How many times can we make a new path without getting lost?

Mathematicians hold that the shortest distance between two points is a straight line; however, if points A and B are next to each other, that line forms a circle with no beginning or end.

“Now, I say to you today, my friends, even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream. I dream that this nation will rise and live out the true meaning of its creed one day: — we hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.” Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.

Perhaps this is a great point to end on this morning. Over the years, well past forty now, I have heard this phrase. My father had a worn-out tape recording of the entire speech. Maybe “sermon” is a better word, for it was a sermon to humanity, not just the United States. I am subscribed to Russell Means’s website, “It Is a Good Day to Die,” which is not pessimistic but about approaching life without fear and knowing you believe in what you are striving for. I believe Dr. King would have embraced the Lakota statement and approached life as if every day was a good day to die. Sadly, his life was cut short by an assassin’s bullet, as were many great men over the years. Dr. King, Crazy Horse, and Sitting Bull did not fear death, for they knew in their hearts they were right.

We are less brave in this reality, but we can still fulfill our dreams; we have to do the work and strive to make them real, whether small or monumental. We choose where we place points A and B and whether our paths become a line or a circle. So, this morning, please keep all in harm’s way, for one of my dreams is a world at peace. So please keep all in harm’s way in your minds and hearts and always give thanks. namaste.

My family and friends
I do not say this lightly,
Mitakuye Oyasin
(We are all related)
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