Bird Droppings May 14, 2018
Filling cracks in leaky pots
Many thousands of years ago Buddha compared people to four kinds of clay vessels. Borrowing these words today as I am thinking to several days watching grandkids and listening away from my normal routine of writing and doing things. A couple of lost days but time with my grandkids and actually I got a little gardening thrown in. Today I looked at my calendar and was concerned as I think ahead to writing and seriously getting my dissertation completed. Moving on I have been a fan of eastern thought for many years finding as I research and read often significant words and understanding in these words from many years ago.
“One type of vessel has holes in the bottom. We can pour in as much water as we like and it runs right out. When this type of person hears and it goes in one ear and out the other. The second type of vessel has cracks. Though we pour in and it seeps out slowly until the vessel is empty again. The third vessel is full to the brim with stale water–views and opinions. One can’t pour anything new in, everything is already known. The only useful vessel is the fourth, without holes or cracks and totally empty.” Ayya Khema
I went out earlier to photograph the sunrise and as I completed ran by the corner store for a couple of water bottles and to get some eggs. They were out of eggs and now a dilemma. What do I do for breakfast? I decided on Waffle House and as always a story unfolded. I watched the four types of people as Buddha defined. The cook who evidently had a bad day yesterday was working and a waitress came up saying she had been praying for him. It went in one ear and out the other as he conversed with other waitresses. One old man at the counter filled his coffee mug with sugar I actually thought maybe half sugar half coffee. All the waitresses said hello and he sort of shrugged them off a nod of the head perhaps. The other fellow slightly younger than me at the counter was driving an older jeep Cherokee with Trump/Pence stickers and was somewhat gruff with folks behind the counter. He huddles around his coffee cup with his phone gripped tightly scrolling Fox news. Then there was me sitting observing all as if a TV show listening and seeing what was in front of me trying to understand each person.
“Be an Island So often as we go about people seemingly are learning but for whatever reason the words taught ideas shown messages left go unheeded unanswered and unheard – Comparing us to a clay pot is an interesting analogy – we need to approach life less full less sure of ourselves and opinions and views more open minded there is so much to learn even for an old guy like me – “It is always in season for old men to learn.” Aeschylus
“Learn as though you would never be able to master it; hold it as though you would be in fear of losing it.” Confucius
A few days back I responded to a question on an educational blog about motivating students. I would be the first to argue this is a critical part of each day. Others were arguing why should we teachers have to motivate that is up to parents. When I started back to graduate school after nearly thirty years away I was sort of worried but it then I realized how much I enjoyed learning and as I sit in a high school each day it is not teaching a subject that is so crucial it is teaching that joy of learning. When students want to learn being a teacher is the easiest job in the world, it is filling and helping to fill that clay pot.
Teaching or trying to teach a person whose sole goal is getting to their sixteenth birthday and then quitting school is a lot more difficult. Now the challenge is which is more rewarding knowing you have filled a clay jar to the brim which most anyone could do easily or repairing the cracks fixing the holes and removing the stale water. I have this problem with enjoying fixing the broken vessels.
“It seems that we learn lessons when we least expect them but always when we need them the most, and, the true “gift” in these lessons always lies in the learning process itself.” Cathy Lee Crosby
As I would sit many days after school and often in the morning before school discussing world views and ideas with students who are more like the empty pots, something occurs, a two way street we are both teacher and student and several times I have referred to this as my philosophy of teaching, osmosis. Real teaching in real life is about osmosis. Each organism receiving and giving in the relationship neither truly benefiting more than the other a give and take as it is. But during class when I am filling cracks mending holes that is the time when true satisfaction happens when you see someone’s eyes open and an idea slip in, past ten or eleven years of built up defeat or walling up, then the work is worth it.
“Research shows that you begin learning in the womb and go right on learning until the moment you pass on. Your brain has a capacity for learning that is virtually limitless, which makes every human a potential genius.” Michael J. Gelb
I once had a professor who in class would explain how each person used only a small portion of their brain perhaps less than ten percent even the great intellect Albert Einstein was limited to that degree. So if that was true we could all be so much better than we are. Many years ago I had the great privilege of listening to Glenn Doman who is now in his eighties. Doman still teaches that philosophy in Philadelphia at The Institute for Achievement for Human Potential, working with severely brain injured children and adults in rehabilitation. Dr. Doman believes we can work with other portions of the brain not used and not damaged for example in a brain injured child. I have always found this to be a most interesting concept. Biologically speaking we do not have ninety percent of our brain sitting idle, as much as we have more potential if tapped into.
Borrowing from other great thinkers and such this idea is being actively used on children and adults. Has it been scientifically proven, maybe not in the purest sense of the word? However one thing that I did learn from Dr. Doman was to never, ever, lower expectations of any child, always reach for the stars. I see children daily who have had teachers sat the educational limit for them, “this child tested such and such and so will only do such and such”, a limit, a restriction, a parameter, a box and often sticking with the child through their educational career. The data should not be used to define a child but to offer suggestions as to how and reach that child.
I have found that many teachers live in boxes of their own making, limiting, constricting, and defining and often in smaller boxes than they place their students. It would be great if we were all more like amoebas, flexible, able to work around any corner into ever crack crevice and hole, see and do all and then osmosis simply absorb it in. There would be no parameters and no limits. Sadly the only down side no one will ever accuse an amoeba of being constipated usually it is the other extreme. (sorry for the gross comparison) but when a fixed container keeps packing stuff in it eventually gets stuck or so jammed tight nothing comes out.
“Learning is not compulsory but neither is survival.” W. E. Deming
Only a few hours ago I gassed my car up and was talking with the cashier, a young woman who is Sikh college educated and very knowledgeable about philosophy. We often discuss eastern thought. Somehow in talking about the little deli that had closed and was reopening at the store the statement “quality is all” came up. As I thought about it, Deming came to mind and Phillip J. Crosby great guru of quality and author. We talked a few minutes and she left me with a thought, that far too often we chose unwisely and in ignorance go the wrong direction.
When all is said and done, learning is daily it is about expectations, keep the sky and beyond as a limit have no limit, absorb not stuff and be osmotic not parasitic, rise above and not fall below. I have said so many times if when stepping to the next rock crossing the stream you fall in climb back up you are already wet and it is in the stepping stones we learn to not wallow in the stream. Today have a safe journey in life and please keep all in harm’s way on your mind and in your heart.
My family and friends I do not say this lightly,
(We are all related)